Archive for November, 2009

Decorations like No Other

Friday, November 13th, 2009

Everyone wants their wedding ceremony to be unique and different, but how much variety can you have with your choice of decorations?  The possibilities really are endless!! Here is a perfect example from a recent wedding we photographed.  Kelly and David definitely went unique with their ceremony decorations.

Check out these pictures:
balarinaentranceThis isn’t the bridal party.  Keep watching…

balarinastandingHere are the girls, standing at the end of each aisle.

balarinabrideintoWatching Kelly, the bride, coming up the aisle.

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These are the most unique pew decorations I’ve ever seen: dancers dressed a pixies.  Brilliant.

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10 Reasons to keep Jay-Z out of Your Wedding Reception

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

I recently Tweeted about the surprise announcement from rapper and hip-hop mogul Jay-Z. If you haven’t heard, Jay-Z will be adding wedding DJ to his resume. Surprising right?!?  Although at first thought this may sound tempting to you, pay attention to what Jay Z says following his announcement, “I’m gonna work on (wedding DJing) for six months, then I’m gonna find out which DJ makes the most and charge double and tour, do weddings.” 15040282

When asked why he is going to charge so much, he responded, “I’m gonna have video behind me and dancers. I’m going to make a whole show of this thing.”

If that statement doesn’t make you think twice, here are the top ten reasons why not to book Jay-Z (or a Jay-Z impersonator) to DJ your wedding reception:

  1. A multi-platinum, world wide celebrity will steal your wedding day spotlight.
  2. He will only have six months experiencejay-z2
  3. You hired a photographer not paparazzi.
  4. He is going to charge double just because.
  5. Smoke, lights, dancer, and background video = tacky. At least on a wedding reception dance floor.
  6. Have you listen to Jay-Z lyrics? Get grandma and the flower girl out of the hall ASAP.
  7. I doubt he will sit down and discuss your reception with you beforehand; coordinator your venders; and pronounce all your wedding party’s names right.
  8. Because “Put your d**n hands up” will not get your grandpa to the dance floor.Rapper Jay-Z performs at Hammerstein Ballroom on November 11, 2007 in New York City.
  9. “Big Pimpin” or “99 Problems” may not be the best choice for your first dance.
  10. He’s not from Detroit.  If you are going to go big at your wedding at least get someone with Detroit roots.

If you still want Jay-Z to DJ your wedding, he says, “If you want to book me, book me early, because the prices will be a little better because when I get good, I’m really going to go for it.”

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River of Love

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

If you are like me, you have  slowly become a country music fan. There is something about catchy lyrics, real life stories, and the fact the I can play it with the whole family in the car.

Here is the country legend George Strait singing a great first dance song with an island flair.

If you are having a destination or beach wedding this would be perfect!

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6 Reception Time Saver Tips

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

You may be wondering how you are going to find time to fit everything in at your wedding reception.  When you follow these six easy suggestions, it will be easy and you will find yourself stress-free and able to enjoy your wedding day. The secret isn’t finding more time; it’s spending more time doing the fun things: eating, drinking, laughing and dancing.

1.  Limit the number of staged group photos. Too many group pictures of the bridal party and families taken before, during and/or after dinner can seriously disrupt the timing of events.  Remember…you’re the boss.  Feel free to say NO to your photographer, if you’re running behind schedule and the situation demands it.   Better yet, communicate your wishes to him BEFORE your wedding day.  Like your DJ, your photographer needs your “must have” list, your “wish list” and your “do not” photograph list well in advance of the date.decorated-tables

2.  Limit your receiving line. If you must have a receiving line, include only the bride & groom and their parents as greeters.  It isn’t necessary for guests to greet your bridesmaids and groomsmen; it will slow the movement of the line and annoy your guests.

3.  Keep moving when greeting guests table to table.  This is a fantastic way to greet your guests, but don’t linger too long at each table.  Offer only brief exchanges & thank you’s, and keep moving around the room.

4.  Get your bridal party on the “same page,” (parents, too). Prior to your wedding day, give members of the bridal party and your parents a timetable of reception events that clearly explains where they need to be and when.  This will save you tons of aggravation with AWOL friends and relatives – and they will appreciate knowing ahead of time what is expected of them.

5.  Consider a buffet instead of plated meals. Buffets are always faster than plated meals.  A double-sided buffet with two service lines represents the fastest food service option for weddings.  10329_181723380139_127269175139_4172540_1216370_n

6.  Eliminate the dollar dance. If 100 of your guests decide to pay the bride a dollar to dance with her, and she spends only 15 seconds with each of them, she will need 25 minutes to dance with all of them, not including the time required to change dance partners!  Give her and everyone else a break; forget the dollar dance.

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Music and Your Outdoor Wedding

Tuesday, November 10th, 2009

As you plan your outdoor wedding reception, and before you make your final site choice, there are four important factors you need to keep in mind regarding your entertainment:  the location of the power source, the size of the reception area, the size of the dance floor and rules of the local noise ordinance.

Power Source for your Entertainment

In order for your DJ’s equipment to work properly, a 120V power source that is no more than 200 feet from his set up location is required.  When your DJ’s location is further than 200 feet from a stationary power source, a quiet, 120V portable generator may be used.  Because generators can be noisy, try to situate it at least 100 feet from the reception area and no further than 200 feet, as your DJ will need to run a power cord between the generator and his sound equipment.

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The amount of equipment your music provider needs is determined by the size of the reception area and how many guests will be in attendance.  Good sound requires an enclosed space in order to create an area of acoustics. If sound waves are not reflected back to listeners by barrier objects, such as walls and ceilings, the sound travels past listeners and is never heard from again.

Tents are necessary to shelter your guests and expensive sound equipment from hot sun, wind or rain but are also needed to protect sound quality.  Good tents have side walls — great for blocking wind, which interferes with sound, too.  The larger your tent and audience size, the more the sound may be needed to entertain guests.bridesmaiddancing

When calculating the size of the tent, don’t forget to factor in an area for your dance floor and DJ.  One of the benefits of hiring a DJ:  he doesn’t require much room!  Set aside a 10’ x 6’ area for him.  If you want to give him a little more elbow room, a 10’ x 10’ area is more than adequate for his needs.

Size of your Dance Floor

There’s never a good reason to fret about the size of your dance floor.  Given great music, people will dance anywhere, anytime.  Even if you’re inviting 300 guests, you won’t need a gigantic dance floor.   You can accommodate dancers with a 20’ x 20’ minimum area of rented flooring, and keep an area around it empty of tables or chairs so your “overflow” dancers may boogie, too.

Rules of the Noise Ordinance

Once you’ve decided on a location, ask the village, city, or township zoning board to provide you with a copy of its noise ordinance.  Some communities require outdoor music to be kept within a certain decibel range and/or impose a curfew on noise after a certain time in the evening.weddingdance

Be courteous to neighboring property owners by informing them of your plans.  If the spirit of the occasion moves you, spread a little goodwill by inviting them to join in the good times, too.

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Goin’ Out with my Boots on

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Is it ever too early to start rockin’ out?  Check out this video.  So funny!!  Mike Staff DJ in the making???

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11 Ways to Pack Your Dance Floor (all night long!)

Friday, November 6th, 2009

Years of experience as a wedding entertainer have taught me a few tricks that can make your dance floor vibrate with the celebratory beat of numerous feet. Following these easy tips can make a big difference in the success of your dance party.

1.  Rent a smaller dance floor. A huge dance floor can appear empty, even when a nice-sized crowd is jamming on the floorboards.  Smaller dance floors look full faster, ramping up the energy level in the room and giving shy guests the courage they need to join the fun.  Rental companies may insist that you need 2.5 square feet per person for your dance floor.  Instead, rent a floor that’s 25 percent smaller than the suggested formula.  If people want to dance, they’ll do so whether there’s space on the official floor or not.  Leave plenty of room around the perimeter, (free of tables and chairs), for additional dancers.   thisweddingrocks

2.  Turn the lights down low. A dimly-lit dance area works best.  Keep in mind that daylight lasts as late as 10:00 p.m. in the summer months.  If the hall’s windows face west, make sure there are shades you can drop or blinds you can close to keep out the last rays of light.  Keep an eye on your photographer, who will try to brighten the dance area for picture-taking, and delegate someone to keep a hand on the light switch.

3.  Say no to videographers that require “spotlights” on the dance floor.
There’s nothing like the sudden glare of a spotlight to make camera-shy guests scurry from the dance floor.  New high definition (HD) cameras allow videographers to avoid the use of harsh lights and capture dancers on tape much more unobtrusively.  Be sure to ask around and find a videographer that uses HD.

4.  Keep the hall doors closed. Busy hallways can be distractions for your guests.  Redirect their attention to the dance floor by closing doors that lead to gathering areas outside the room.

5.  Locate the bar inside the room, if at all possible. After dinner, the dance area is the focal point for your party.  Guests leaving the room for drinks can’t hear the music and won’t be able to dance if their requested songs are played.  Placing the bar in the room keeps guests within listening range and able to respond to their favorite songs on the dance floor.
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6.  Play requests.  People like to hear familiar music and dance to their favorite songs.  The more your DJ honors song requests, the more likely your dance floor will be filled.  Ask him to leave plenty of room in his music schedule for their requests.

7.  Keep “do not play” lists to a minimum. You may have a lengthy list of songs you don’t want to hear, but those may be the tunes people are waiting to dance to.  Allow your DJ to play the songs that will bring people to their feet, and you and your guests will enjoy a livelier party.

8.  Limit your “must play” list, and include most of your requests on a “try to play” list.  It’s thrilling to hear lots of your favorite songs at your party, but playing too many takes time away from familiar and requested songs that others are anticipating.  Your DJ can sense the crowd’s mood and decide when a song on your “try to play” list will match the feeling.  Generously share your music time with your guests, and watch them respond in kind on your dance floor.
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9.  Put the DJ right next to the dance floor, not in a corner or out of the way. In order to do his job well, your DJ must be located where the party action is, not separated from the dance floor by tables, walls or other barriers.  You and your guests need easy access to him for announcements and song requests, and he needs a direct line of sight to read cues from the crowd.

10.  Hire a Great DJ, and then trust him.
Each party has its own personality.  Some guests may pack the dance floor right away; others may need a little more time to warm up.  An experienced wedding DJ has played to every type of audience and knows what works.  Give him time to perform his music magic, and you are sure to be enchanted by the results.weddingdance2

11.  Get out on the dance floor and DANCE! Your friends and family want to see you have a fantastic time and will take their cues from you.  If you and your groom are enjoying yourselves on the dance floor, your guests will want to be there, too!!

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Wedding Movie Clips

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

Do you have a favorite wedding movie?  One of my favorites is Princess Bride.  Check out this clip… 

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Great Wedding Song

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

As a DJ company, we are always looking for great wedding songs.  Today I was driving,  and this song came on: “When God Made You” by Newsong and Natalie Grant.  I couldn’t think of a better song to be played at a wedding. Check out the video…

The lyrics are really powerful:

Oh I wonder what God was thinking,when he created you.
I wonder if He knew everything I would need,
Because he made all my dreams come true.
When God made you, He must have been thinking about me.
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Those lyrics sound like true love to me. Include this song in your ceremony, maybe during the lighting of the unity candle, or have it be the tune to your first dance as a couple.

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Wedding Toast Do’s and Don’ts

Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009

Have you ever sat through an awkward Best Man toast or listened to the Maid of Honor babble on and on? Check out this interview for the basic tips about wedding toasts.

If you aren’t a video person, here are the main points:

Do choose a theme for your toast such as why the couple is perfect together, or what you have learned while living with the groom.
Do use point form notes.  Don’t write out your speech word for word.
Do know when you are expected to speak.  This will keep you from being caught off guard.
Do familiarize yourself with the location and other dynamics.
Do close with class.

Don’t use canned toast or something you found off the internet.
Don’t assume you will be able to speak without preparation.
Don’t speak longer than 3-5 minutes
Don’t use humor that would offend your grandmother, especially since there will be grandmothers present.
Don’t have more than one drink before the toast.

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