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7 Ideas for a Simply Perfect Valentines Day

Friday, February 12th, 2010

Valentines Day is only two days away and if you brides are anything like me, you have yet to plan something.  If the task of the day’s activities have been delegated to you, have no worries.  I found 7 romantic, simple, non-traditional, budget friendly ways to spend your day.

1. Play Games. Buy your love a new board game.  It will last longer than flowers and chocolates, and will make you laugh more than a cheesy card.  Two games that I recommend are Fact or Crap or Things.  Lots of fun for groups, but easy to come up with a way to play one-on-one.things

2. Lay low. Finally watch that movie the two of you missed in theaters and get your favorite take out.  Not having to do dishes leaves more time for cuddling.

3. Make it Sweet. Try making your favorite desserts from scratch - sorry no powder and water mixes this time.  Plus, what is better than seeing your man in an apron and getting to lick the batter.

4. Party! It is probably safe to say that your friends haven’t planned their day yet either.  Hlaughing-friendsave everyone bring a dish and spend the night tellling mushy love stories, horrible bad dates nightmares, and everything in between.

5. Decorate. A personal favorite artistic activity of mine is to paint pottery at a local stores.  You pick out your dish, mug, vase, ect and paint away.  They will bake it for you and Voile!  a piece of dustable love.

6. Pamper Each Other.  Grab your body lotion, nail polish, and rubbing oils.  Give each other full body massages.  It is a great way to relax without spending the big $$. Maybe your man will throw in a pedi at the end, too. :)

7.  Sip, Sip, Enjoy… Go wine tasting. Check with any specialty wine stores in your area; some wine-tastingoffer free (or really cheap) wine-tastings.  Grab your favorite bottle and head home to relax the night away.

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An Invitation to Remember

Friday, January 29th, 2010

Friday is here!  I had a great week, but nothing compares to the excitement I have for this weekend.  I will be making my Television debut!channel7

The other week we wrapped up taping for the Channel 7 Ultimate Wedding Planning Show and  it airs this Sunday night at 7pm.

All the best local vendors and experts in the wedding industry will be sharing their know-how and advice, as well as answering questions from the audience.

Be sure to watch it!

Give me feedback below after the show.  Did you love it? Hate it? Have any questions?

But, before you let loose for the weekend, check out this EPIC wedding invitation.  It is a bit long (4 minutes!), but I guarantee you’ve never seen anything like this:

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Give it to me straight

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I love the feedback that we’ve been getting from all of our readers, but now is when I really need your input. We will be running some print ads in the knot and some local outlets, and we just couldn’t move on a decision without consulting our friends in social media.

We are thinking outside the box on this one. No pastel colors, goofy cursive fonts, or cheesy posed pictures (if you didn’t think that was clever - check out a recent bridal magazine.)

Here’s where you come in: I want to know your opinion.  The good, the bad, keep the ugly to a minimum, but give it to me straight!  What colors do you like the most? Do you like any of them?  Would you download the e-book after looking at this?

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Metro Detroit Brides’ Wedding Planner and Organizer

Monday, January 18th, 2010

Monday has rolled its pretty little head around again, and I’m still recovering from last week.  It’s great to be busy, but I’ll take a second to reflect over this past weekend.

One of our favorite parts of the Bridal Shows last weekend was finally being able to announce Metro Detroit Brides’ Wedding Planning & Organizer.  This is a binder pack with 200 pages of timelines, budgets, worksheets, organizers, custom tabs and folders.  Plus, dozens of special reports including…wedding-binder-cover2

  • The Top Ways Detroit Area Brides Overspend their Budget
  • The 11 Most Common Guest Complaints about Detroit Area Weddings
  • Metro Detroit’s Most Popular Locations for Wedding & Engagement Photography

We are giving these away FREE (that’s  a $79.95 Value for FREE)!!  Any bride (or groom) who comes in for a brief meeting will get this binder to kick-start their wedding planning.

“The Metro Detroit Brides’ Wedding Binder and Organizer has been my life-saver throughout my wedding planning process.  I couldn’t imagine trying to plan my wedding without it. I loved the local advice and resources.”

Jenny Askew, Sterling Heights

“My meeting with Mike Staff Productions was fun and relaxed. They really listened to what I wanted and didn’t try to pressure me into anything. I ended up bundling my DJ and Photography services and saved $1300. I would definitely recommend checking them out.”

Ashley McCrary, Novi

Are you a Detroit Area bride or groom?  Did you get engaged over the winter holiday? Feel overwhelmed with the wedding planning process?

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Wedding Movie Clips

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

Do you have a favorite wedding movie?  One of my favorites is Princess Bride.  Check out this clip… 

What are your favorite wedding movies? Post your clips below.

Gimme a ring sometime!

Monday, September 28th, 2009

There is nothing that symbolizes marriage more than … the wedding ring! A spouse wears it to indicate a marital commitment of fidelity, but have you ever wondered how this tradition started? This symbol of matrimony has been present for centuries … here are some fun facts about the RING.

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* Even in the ancient times marriages have been symbolized by wearing a ring.  However, it was usually worn by the woman to indicate she was someone’s possession and could no longer circulate amongst other men.

*Conventionally, an engagement ring was presented as a betrothal gift by a man to his prospective bride.  It represented a formal agreement to a future marriage.

*Ever grumbled about having to buy both an engagement ring and a wedding band?  Well you can blame Pope Innocent III … who instituted a waiting period between engagement and marriage in the 13th century and also insisted that a ring be used in the wedding ceremony.  Before that, rings were used to seal engagements only.

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*Why do Americans put their wedding bands and engagement rings on the 4th finger of the left hands, you ask?  Well, the Romans thought that particular finger held the vena amoris or the “vein of love” which was a direct line to the heart.  The Egyptians shared this insight.

*The most expensive engagement ring purchased cost 4.7 million dollars, which was given to Paris Hilton … which she kept even after she broke off the engagement.
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Rings are prevalent in just about all cultures.  Here are a few that are particularly interesting.

hawaiEngraved Hawaiian Rings: Hawaiian couples often wear specially engraved rings decorated with their spouse’s name.

Irish Claddagh Ring: Many have seen this ring, it is a crowned heart held between two hands.  This irishring represents loyalty, love and friendship.  Usually, this is used as an engagement ring, but can be used as a wedding band as well.  It is also often given to someone in order to represent any kind of devotion, including friendship.

Turkish Puzzle Ring: This popular puzzle ring is said to have been developed 2000 years ago by a jealousturkish Turkish traveler determined  to know whether his wife was cheating on him.  The ring was unable to be reassembled if the women removed it from her finger.  Puzzle rings can be made from 4,5,6 or as many as 24 thin, odd shaped pieces that when put together in the right combination is made to look like one ornate ring resembling Celtic knot work.

Indian Bichiya Toe Ring: Toe rings are preferred to finger rings in India.  However, they are not made of gohinduld.  Gold is considered a “respected” metal that is worn by Hindus only on the upper half of their bodies.

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Top 5 WORST Films about Weddings

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

Some people wrote to us asking about certain movies about weddings that didn’t make our “BEST” list.  The reason?  They made this list instead.  Once again, my wife, Dani, will guest blog …..

As long as there are weddings, there will be bad movies about them.  I will admit I do not extend cinematic compliments easily, but I strongly do not recommend the following titles if desiring a decent wedding flick.

5.    Sweet Home Alabama
091609I hear some shaking their heads profusely in disagreement.  But, lets be honest.  Everything that is good about this film has absolutely nothing to do with its wedding or wedding scenes. Who accepts McDreamy but needs to divorce McSloppy but then ends the film by punching McDreamy’s mother?  It is too confusing, and ultimately too corny enough to buy.  I actually adore this film (which is why it is so low on the list) but the wedding scene makes me want to RSVP with regrets.

4.    American Wedding
0916091This film is also low on the list because … I am very much aware that no one watches this film expecting anything more than a raunchy romantic comedy that includes more sex scenes and shock factors than good acting or beautiful wedding scenes.  To be fair, the movie is funny, but is by so far the worst of the three in the “American”  series … and not one to watch when you want a respectable wedding film.

3.    Wedding Date
0916092I don’t remember what this movie was about … because I fell asleep!  This movie included every single thing needed to make a bad movie: bad acting, bad dialogue, boring plot.  All three combined to create a character whose life was so pathetic she had to hire a date for her sisters wedding … and we didn’t care.

2.    Made of Honor
0916093This movie was made already… it was called My Best Friend’s Wedding … and it was done 10x better than the gender reversal take on this awkward situation, that barely worked the first time!  For goodness sake, you would know if you were in love with your best friend BEFORE he/she got engaged, and if you didn’t you are an idiot and should keep your mouth shut, not attempt to make TWO movies on the subject.

1.    Bride Wars

BW_B_Eng1sht (Page 1)There are films like Runaway Bride … The Wedding Planner … who no one could argue that they are chick flick, romantic comedies, girly films to their cores.  But, at least they attempted (at times succeeded) at tackling larger themes.  Its not just like someone realized it was wedding season and decided “hey, I have billions of dollars at my disposal, lets call two big actresses and make a movie that is about announcing wedding season … make sure it has no plot what-so-ever.”  Bride Wars was purely a propaganda film for the wedding industry.  I would like to take this moment to say: We don’t need your help, the wedding business is booming without the help of your horrible films!  Bottom line: I am never going to get my two hours back I lost while watching this movie.

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A Once in a Millennium Moment

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

9-9-09 …Obviously enough, that only happens once in a millennium, but one of our newly hitched couples made that date even more special… they made it their anniversary.  If you’re checking your day planner, it was this past Wednesday - yes, a Wednesday for a wedding!!  All around the world couples flocked early to have this memorial and historically lucky number combination as their day in history. Here in Detroit, this day brought more than just luck for our happy couple:

One of our DJs, Kevin Joynt, was able to make this day a little more special because of his eye or we’ll say ear for detail. He remembered his couple mentioning Billy Joel as a choice favorite.  After pre-alerting the crowd to note their watches at 9:00pm, Kevin played Billy Joel’s “Piano Man” in perfect timing.  “It’s 9 o’clock on a Saturday….”  (Get it? 9 o’clock on 9-9-09!!) Even though it was a Wednesday, the crowd loved it and the new couple was more than pleasantly surprised.

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Add a late night snack of French bread pizza and a sparkler lit, videoed send off; and that’s a date everyone will remember.

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Top 10 Movies about Weddings

Friday, September 4th, 2009

Since most movies about weddings are “chick flicks” … I asked my wife, Dani, to guest blog about this subject for me ….

For as long as there will be weddings, there will be films about them.  If you are looking for a testament to cinematic ceremonies, then this is a fantastic way to start.   Here is my list of top 10 films about weddings.

10.     My Best Friend’s Wedding
09040910This is not my personal favorite.  I was trying very hard to not include it, but I can not deny that it makes every top 10 list ever Googled.  It did a good job maintaining a spot as an influential wedding film.  While the film is a bit cheesy in parts, it has an unpredictable, thoughtful ending with good performances from the entire cast.

9. Monster-in-Law
09040909Even though the praise of this film goes solely to Wanda Sykes … lets be honest … secretly … every bride shares at least one degree of what Charley (Lopez) feels towards her mother-in-law to be.

8. Wedding Crashers
I surprised myself as I put this on my list, as I am someone who prefers a more subtle comedy to the drunken, 09040908sex-rampant, knock out comedy that Wedding Crashers definitely defines.  However, the anti-marriage rant that begins at the beginning of the film turns out to be a testament to what real love is, being picture perfect or not.  Plus, who can resist a movie that makes Will Ferrel look like a complete loser.

7. Four Weddings and a Funeral
09040907This is British comedy at its best, and also made Hugh Grant an international star over night.  This movie follows the lives of Charlie (Grant) and his friends, through their loves, weddings and unfortunate losses.

6. The Wedding Planner
09040906Even though the plot of this movie is literally a bride’s worse nightmare, the film manages to turn this nightmare into a discussion of larger themes about love and marriage.  You might even get some ideas for planning your own wedding.

5. Wedding Singer
09040905At one point, funny man Adam Sandler released 5 movies all around the same time … that were very similar to each other.  Except, for this film.  This movie is so, just so … sweet .. and genuine that it makes your soul smile.  Plus, the soundtrack includes some slammin’ 80’s music.

4.  Runaway Bride
09040904Through the entire movie, questions of identity and self reflection are constantly being raised, enough so to diminish the lack luster of a formulaic romantic comedy.   The movie emphasizes the importance of self awareness before going on the journey of marriage.

090409033. My Big Fat Greek Wedding
This movie is a true independent gem about the trials and tribulations of interfaith and multicultural weddings and the importance of family.  An extra plus … even guys will enjoy this romantic flick.

2. Monsoon Wedding
09040902This is an Indian indie film that shines above many on this list.  It beautifully demonstrates how big weddings are chaotic all over the world especially when mixing in old traditions and customs with modern life.  The movie also respectively tackles sexual abuse and issues of class.

1. Father of the Bride
09040901C’mon … this had to be number 1.  It’s a classic.  Every father can identify with Steve Martin’s character as a father hilariously traveling through the journey of “letting go” of his daughter.  This movie will have you laughing and crying through its entirety.

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