Wedding Photo Guide

 

Your wedding day is the day you have probably dreamed of for a lifetime.  And part of those dreams probably included an idea of how you would look on your wedding day.  Here are some tips to help you look your best in your bridal portraits.

Talk to Your Photographer.  Communicating with your photographer is a critical step to getting the most out of your wedding day photography.  Share with your wedding photographer your vision of what your wedding day photos should look like.  Make suggestions for location, posing or unique photo ideas so that your photographer is able to meet your expectations.

Make a Shot List.  Your photographer will work with you to develop a wedding photography plan.  Before speaking with your photographer, it may be helpful to look at bridal magazines for photos that have the look or feel you would like for your wedding day images.  This will allow you to share your inspiration images with your wedding photographer.  He or she can then advise you on the best way to achieve your photography goals by helping you to prioritize your shot list.  Remember, this is your wedding day so it may be best to limit the number of group shots you want to allow the photographer to focus on pictures of the bride and groom.

Communicate with your fiance and bridal party.  If one of you is more passionate about wedding pictures than the other, make sure you understand the importance to each other.  If you are not on the same page about wedding picture preferences or importance, the other party could appear disinterested in the process, which may cause frustration to the other.  Share your photography plan with your fiance and bridal party so that everyone has a clear idea about your expectations and is ready to cooperate.

Practice the poses you love.  Once you have identified the type of wedding pictures you love, practice the body positions from the images.  If you are able to position yourself in a similar way, your wedding photographer will have to provide less direction, lending to more natural photography.  If you like wedding photos of couples dipping or the groom lifting the bride, it might be a good idea to get your fiance involved also.

Relax.   It can be a bit intimidating at first to have a photographer focused on you.  Sometimes this causes brides and grooms to become a bit guarded – and it can show in your posture and personality, resulting in stiff and unnatural wedding pictures.  Select a wedding photography with a portfolio you love and a personality you enjoy and then be yourself.  When you act naturally, your wedding photographer is able to capture candid moments, genuine emotion and truly, the real you.

Allow Extra Time.  On your wedding day, time seems to move quicker and small tasks take longer.  If you feel stressed, the pictures will show it.  Build time into your wedding day schedule that allows you to savor each moment, rather than rushing past them.

Most importantly, have fun. The best gift you can give yourself is to hire a great photographer who works with you and sees your vision your way. You have been planning this day for months, even years, once it finally arrives, relax and enjoy it – and your wedding photos will show it!

 

Tips for your wedding photos:

Before the wedding

  • Get plenty of rest so you look refreshed in your wedding images
  • Drink plenty of water in the week leading up to the wedding.  This will help purify your skin.
  • Avoid spa facials the week of the wedding that could lead to a break out.
  • Practice wearing your wedding day shoes.  You’ll be on your feet a lot on your wedding day.

On your wedding day

  • Pay attention to your hands.  If you notice that your hands feel tense, your body language is probably a bit stiff.
  • If you need to take a break for a moment, do so.  Your wedding photographer is your personal photographer and should understand if you need a moment to regroup.
  • Carry a small mirror and make up kit with you for touchups as needed.  This is a great part of your wedding day emergency kit.
  • Keep clutter to a minimum.  This is especially true of getting ready images.  Anything that might be a distraction in the photos should be removed.
  • Slightly raising your chin will elongate the neck, minimizing the appearance of “double chins”.
  • Moving your elbows away from your body reduces the look of a wide torso.
  • Standing square to the camera can make you appear wider.  While it is a strong pose for men, most women prefer to be slightly angled.
  • When standing, place your weight on your back foot and point your front foot toward the camera.  This will accentuate your curves in a flattering manner.
  • Placing your hand on your hip will make your waist look thinner.  Doing it too often will make you look like you have a lot of attitude.
  • Put one shoulder a bit forward and turn the hips when posing.  This creates a slight angle that accentuates the hips.  Pointing your nose away from the camera, but keeping your eyes to it can be very flattering.
  • Make sure you do a “dress rehearsal” of your wedding look.
  • Keep bouquets at belly button height or by your side.  You don’t want to hide that beautiful wedding dress!
  • The most flattering sunlight happens 1-2 hours before sunset.  If your wedding timeline allows, try to capture images of the bride and groom outside during this time.
  • When walking for images, look ahead, at each other or steal a kiss – just don’t look down the whole time.
  • Photo props like sunglasses, parasols or other items can really personalize your wedding photos.
  • For variety in your photos, try tipping your head slightly to one side or down, looking up with your eyes. This is a great way to show off your veil, hairstyle or for images with your bouquet.
  • Looking downward or into the distance creates a calming, serene photo.
  • Most importantly, if you are uncomfortable it will show in your wedding pictures!  Let your photographer know so that you can try something else.

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Choosing A Wedding Theme

You have probably had ideas about your wedding day since you were a little girl; the bouquet, dress, colors and more.  Now that you are in the midst of wedding planning, you need a way to bring all of those ideas into a manageable concept.  That’s where a wedding theme can help you.  Here are some ideas to help you create your wedding theme.

Shared Interests.  Do you and your fiance have a favorite pastime?  Is there a movie, novel or song that is part of your story?  A wedding theme that is able to encompass equal parts of you is truly a celebration of you as a couple.  So whatever you two share, whether it’s Motown recordsor Tigers baseball, should be considered for your wedding theme.

 

 

Color Your Wedding Theme.  The colors you select for your wedding day can provide the right inspiration for your wedding theme.  You can also take your cue from nature, using the season of your wedding day and the colors associated with it.  Or perhaps the location of your wedding, such as a beach wedding and the colors associated with the water.

 

 

 

Acknowledge Military Service.  The majesty of a military wedding is a heart-moving experience. The ceremony, respect for tradition, and recognition of sacrifice touches all that attend.  Their unique nature adds to the beauty of a wedding day.  It is important to remember that each branch does have their own traditions and protocol.

 

 

 

Go Back To School.  Did you and your fiance meet in college?  If the beginning of your story took place during your University days, consider adding some college spirit to your wedding theme.  You can choose to use the colors as part of your wedding day or maybe even visit the campus for your Romantic portrait session.

 

 

 

Tell Your Own Love Story.  Your wedding day is the culmination of your time together as a couple.  Why not make your wedding day your love story?  You may choose to write your own wedding vows, feature pictures throughout your courtship as the decor and make the day truly yours.

 

 

 

 

Take a Cue From Your Closet.  Is your personal style edgy, traditional or modern?  Do you practice an eco-friendly life style?  Do you spend hours looking for vintage finds?  Whatever your style; use it as an inspiration for your wedding theme!

 

 

 

 

Incorporate Your Heritage.  Many brides and grooms decide to pay tribute to their families heritage by including traditional elements from their personal history, such as bagpipes at a Celtic wedding or traditional polkas at a Polish reception.

 

 

 

 

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Real Michigan Wedding: Ashley & Christopher

Ashley and Christopher were married March 24th at the White House Wedding Chapel with a reception following at the Mirage Banquet Facilities.  Their Spring wedding day had unusually mild weather, allowing for romantic portraits outside.

Ashley in the Bridal Suite at the White House Wedding Chapel.

Christopher on the grounds of the White House Wedding Chapel.

White House Wedding Chapel ceremony.

The bridal party in shades of purple.

Outdoor Spring romantics.

Beautiful cake design in keeping with Ashley and Christopher’s color scheme.

Their first dance and husband and wife.

Congratulations Ashley and Christopher!

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Questions To Ask A Videographer

 

In a previous blog post, we shared questions you should ask a wedding photographer.  Today we will share questions you should ask your wedding videographer.

  1. How can I view your work?  Online highlight wedding videos are a great example of a videographer’s work, but don’t always tell the complete story.  It is best to watch examples of how they approach all areas of the day, from the pre-ceremony through the reception.
  2. What is your style?  While a highly stylized or photojournalistic approach is great for select montages of your wedding day, it is likely that you also want someone that uses a documentary style as well.  This allows them to capture your special moments in an artful way, without to much intrusion.
  3. Do I receive rights to my edited wedding video?  You should be allowed to make your own copies or the videographer should make them for a nominal fee.
  4. What packages do you offer?  Your wedding day and needs are unique to you.  Your videographer should offer an array of packages with options for ceremony only coverage with one videographer to 10 hours with two videographers.
  5. Do you work with DJs, photographers and hall managers?  Professionalism and courtesy should be the backbone of a professionals business practice.  Be wary of a wedding vendor who has exclusivity as a contract term.
  6. What attire do you wear to a wedding?  A professional videographer should be dressed in professional business attire.
  7. Will I receive a personal consultation with my wedding videographer?  You should always speak with the videographer filming your wedding prior to your wedding day.  This allows you the opportunity to discuss your personal preferences for your wedding video.
  8. What kind of lighting do you use?  Your wedding day is a special day for you and shouldn’t be a myriad of Hollywood lights.  Professional HD cameras allow for the use of ambient light or small camera mounted lights.  Anything more may be distracting.
  9. When can I expect my edited video?  Make sure any videographer you are considering for your wedding video employs a staff of video editors and states in advance when you can expect your wedding video.  (Mike Staff Productions guarantees you will have your wedding video within 12 weeks of your wedding.)
  10. May I review your contract?  Never do business with a wedding professional that does not clearly express what you can expect.
  11. Will the videographer require a meal?  It is standard to provide dinner for the videographer, DJ and photographer.

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Unique Wedding Photo Ideas

Every bride wants her wedding photos to be unique, but it doesn’t happen by accident.  As you plan for your wedding day, give some consideration to how those decisions will impact your wedding photography plan.

 

Choosing a non-traditional wedding reception venue, such as a museum, art gallery or zoo, can immediately set your wedding photos apart.  How many wedding images do you see with an airplane?

 

 

 

 

Props to the photo props!  Adding a few props to your wedding photos brings a unique element to your pictures.

 

 

 

 

 

Have fun.  If you are a fun-loving couple, there is no reason to turn your wedding day into a somber event.  If you have a great idea for your wedding day photos and activities, share it with your photographer.

 

 

 

 

Dress the room.  Adding additional elements to your room design, such as fabric, up lighting and accent lighting, can help your wedding reception venue take on the feel you are looking for.

 

 

 

 

Personalize your images.  Adding your names to the sand, spelling out your initials with flower petals and other ways of working in your details make the picture “yours”.

 

 

 

 

Add a ShutterBooth to your wedding reception.  Your guests will have a great time and you will get images that will leave you laughing.

 

 

 

 

Take a few quiet moments to spend with each other.  Not only will you be glad you did, but it makes for a great, intimate photo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Plan an activity for the groomsmen prior to the ceremony.  Not only will they appreciate the stress reliever, but it they’ll get fun pictures too!  Just remember use sun screen and wait until after the wedding to share a toast.

 

 

 

 

Look for unique photo opportunities.  The steam escaping during the winter can be a dramatic effect to your wedding photos.

 

 

 

 

Use nature as your backdrop.  A great sunset can add visual interest to your wedding pictures.  If you are interested in a few sunset images, let your photographer know.  He or  she can watch for the moment when the lighting is perfect; while you enjoy mingling with your guests.

 

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Wedding Planning For A Happy Marriage

Wedding planning can be great fun.  Cake sampling, food tasting and flower selection appointments are exciting times.  Looking at wedding photos, watching videos and practicing your first dance allow you to dream about your wedding day.  But amidst all the happy times, will be discussions about budgets, family member opinions and disagreements about details.

Wedding planning may be the first large scale project that you and your fiance tackle together.  As you plan your wedding, you are also beginning the process of building your marriage.  This involves your interactions as a couple and with your soon-to-be blended families.  Practice the following tips to avoid hurt feelings and misunderstandings that can build long lasting resentment and strain in your relationships.

For the bride and groom:

  1. Decide how much control you want to maintain over wedding planning and what tasks you are willing to delegate to family members.  If you want to handle all the details yourself, let your family know your intentions.  Discuss what their financial contribution entitles them to.  They have probably been planning for your wedding day long before you.
  2. For every hour you spend on wedding plans, spend an hour talking about life, your family goals and dreams.  Make it a practice to split your time between things that matter to you and do not let one area take over your life.  It is an important skill you will need throughout your marriage.
  3. Even if you think you know what your fiance would want, ask the questions.  It shows you value him or her.
  4. If you ask family or friends for their opinion, let them know that you appreciate their suggestions, but may or may not use them.
  5. Be loyal and supportive to each other first.  Understand this may be difficult for each other when the disagreement involves your parents.  You are working on forming your own family too.
  6. Have frank conversations about wedding budgets.  This will be a great way to approach financial decisions in the future.
  7. If someone helps you, thank them.  Often.
  8. Remember to have fun!  This should be a great time in your lives.  If it is causing too much stress, reevaluate your wedding priorities.

For friends and family:

  1. Despite your best intentions, the bride and groom do not want all of your opinions.  This isn’t your wedding. Help the bride and groom when asked, but allow them to form their own bonds around this great event.
  2. Your ideas should be suggestions, not demands.
  3. If your financial contribution is a gift, let it be one.
  4. Sometimes the bride or groom needs to vent frustrations.  When this happens listen and be supportive.  Don’t speak poorly about the other party.  They will get over the issue at hand, but unkind words will sting for years to come.
  5. Enjoy the celebration of the couple.  A wedding, while a highly important one, is still a one day event.  The couple will be together, and part of your family, for a lifetime.

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Changing Your Name After the Wedding

If you will take your new husband’s last name or legally abbreviate your married name, there will be several documents that require a name change.  Here’s a breakdown of what to change and when.

 

Wait to Change.  

There is no doubt you will be excited to begin using your married name, but it is a good idea not to make the name change until you return from your honeymoon.  Make all honeymoon travel arrangements in your maiden name because it may take several weeks to change your drivers license, passport and credit cards.  Having two different names can make travel more difficult.

Before the wedding

  • Let your employer know to change your email and business cards.
  • Practice using your new name including the signature.  It will make it more fluent when you do make the change.

 

After the wedding

  • Most changes can not be completed until you receive the fully executed marriage license by mail.
  • Change your name on any bank accounts.  Once the change is complete, notify your payroll department of your new name so the deposit account information matches.
  • Request a new social security card by taking a copy of your marriage license to the social security office.  You can speed up the process if you download a form from the Social Security website.
  • Contact the US State Department to request the name change to your US Passport.
  • You will need your marriage certificate to change the name on your driver’s license.
  • Many utilities, credit card issuers and insurance companies can change your name by phone.  Others will require a copy of your marriage certificate and a personal letter requesting the change.  This will vary by company.
  • Spread the word by making the change to your twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and other social media sites.
  • Make the change with your health insurance provider and doctor’s office.
  • If you have a will or medical proxy, review the document for necessary changes in beneficiary or advocate.

 

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Michigan Video of the Week: Matthew and Amanda

Congratulations to Matthew and Amanda who were married March 17th at St. Perpetua Catholic Church with a reception at Petruzello’s.  Their St. Patrick’s Day wedding had great nods to the celtic holiday including bridal party’s attire, table linens, place card markers and more.

We wish Matthew and Amanda good “luck”!

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Wedding Photo Tips

Everyone wants great wedding photos.  Using the tips below can help you to work with your photographer to capture the images you want.

Share your theme.  If your wedding has a theme, vibe or feeling you are sharing through decor, color choices, etc., share that theme with your photographer.  Knowing what you are trying to share on your wedding day allows the photographer to frame the shot in a way that expresses that vibe.  Dark and romantic or light and happy, your photographer can work to capture images with that feeling through composition and lighting.

 

Wedding colors.  Your wedding color or colors, help to convey the vibe you want for your wedding day.  Select a color you really love, because your photographer and album designer will use your color choice as inspiration for your images.

 

 

 

Toasts.  Encourage your toasters to approach the head table during toasts.  It’s a great photograph when you can capture the well wisher and your reaction to their words.

 

 

 

Consider a First Look.  A first look, reveal or private portrait session can be a real time saver on your wedding day.  This private meeting between the bride and groom allows you to spend a few special moments in advance of your ceremony.  It also means you will get some great images and not be rushed for time later in the day; allowing you to focus on spending time with your guests.

 

 

Engagement Sessions. Besides being an opportunity to get some great photos of you two, an engagement session let’s you practice loosening up so you can be yourself around your photographer. This is a great opportunity to share your creative vision, practice some fun poses, and get ready for close-ups on your big day!  Best of all, an engagement session is an expression of your personality. Choose a location that tells something about the two of you. First dates, proposals, favorite hang outs, all of these can make great spots for the engagement shoot. Pick a theme to your session, choose a season you love, or let your photographer guide you through the choices. The engagement session is all about the two of you.  You can also use images from your engagement session for personalized photo items such as save the dates, sign in books, and guest favors.

 
Make a plan.  Discussing your preferences for posing, shots you must have and would like to get, and the combinations needed for family formals, allows your photographer to understand your unique needs.  He or she can also give you their expert advice on how to best accomplish everything in your photography plan.

 

 

Share your ideas.  Your photographer is just that; your personal photographer.  If you have an idea, be sure to share it.  Your photographer wants to make you happy and can only do that when he or she knows what you want.  The more input you have during the photography plan building and the day of your engagement or wedding photo sessions, will create a more personalized photo.  Share your ideas for locations, posing, interesting props, whatever you’d like.  Your photographer wants to hear from you!

 

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Special Wedding Reception Dances

There are a few key moments in your wedding day; seeing your fiance for the first time, the exchange of vows, the kiss and your first dance.  There are also some special moments for your parents too; like escorting you down the aisle and sharing a special dance at your wedding reception.  Here are some tips for making those moments special.

 

Practice Dancing. A well practiced dance can build confidence for your wedding reception dances.  Many couples take dance lessons and some couples even take dance lessons with their parents.  This could be a great activity to help with the blending of your families – and dad won’t be so nervous sharing that special moment with you.

 

Song Selection. The songs you choose for your first dance and other special wedding dances will determine the choreography of the dance, as well as the tone of the room.  If you and your father are hopeless sentimentals, a slow song would be perfect.  But if you enjoy a more humorous relationship, it is perfectly acceptable to pick a faster paced song.  The same holds true for your first dance.  (For more on wedding reception music, click here.)

Special Circumstances.  Unfortunately, circumstances often prevent the bride or groom from sharing a special dance with their parent.  In these cases, it’s best to discuss what each of you are comfortable doing.  Some options include:

  • The bride or groom dances with their respective parent without mention of the dance that will not take place.
  • The bride or groom dances with a sibling, special friend, family member or new in-law.
  • Neither of you dances with a parent.

If you have a close relationship with both a natural and step-parent you also have a few options to consider.  Regardless of the option you choose, you should discuss your plan in advance so that no one is caught off guard at your wedding reception.

  • Begin the dance with your natural or step-parent and have your wedding DJ introduce the other to cut in mid-dance.  This option works best when there is no animosity between parents.
  • Share an individual dance with both your natural and step parent.
  • If family dynamics make the decision too emotionally charged, you might consider eliminating this dance from your wedding reception.

The usual order for special wedding dances is as follows: couple’s first dance, father and daughter, and mother and son.  If your bridal party will share a dance with you, it typically takes place before the dances with parents.  (For more on wedding reception timelines, click here.)

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